What to do if your unaccompanied minor is stranded overnight

Earlier this year, three unaccompanied minors spent the night in a Melbourne airport lounge after a Virgin Australia flight from Brisbane to Sydney was diverted due to bad weather.

Nine-year-old John Meredith and two other children were given a late-night snack of McDonald's and built a fort out of cardboard boxes inside a meeting room of the Virgin Australia lounge to entertain themselves for the night. Meanwhile, John's family was frantic with worry because the airline didn't reach out to them until several hours after the flight had been due to arrive in Sydney, where his grandparents were waiting to pick him up.

“When you’re dealing with a minor, you should always call the parent,” Katie Meredith told News.com.au. Katie said that Virgin Australia, despite having full contact information for both her and her parents, didn't give John's grandmother any information regarding his whereabouts until 2:30 a.m. Katie herself wasn't notified about the incident until the following morning.

“He’s a pretty happy-go-lucky kid, but he just had heart surgery last month and I would never have allowed him to sleep on the floor of an airport,” Katie said. “It isn’t so much about where he stayed. It’s about not knowing where your child is 100% of the time.”

Flying alone: Unaccompanied minor policies and fees in the United States

While all's well that ends well, John's reverse-Home Alone experience is the stuff of parental nightmares.

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Last summer, two young siblings ended up in different hotel rooms after a flight diversion left them similarly stranded in Atlanta. Much like with John's family, the parents claim that Frontier Airlines didn't reach out to notify them about their children's status or whereabouts; their son borrowed a cellphone to reach out to his parents. Meanwhile, a teenager was booted from an easyJet flight in 2017 after his plane was overbooked, while another was similarly bumped involuntarily from an oversold United Express flight.

"Hundreds of thousands" of unaccompanied minors traverse the skies these days, according to a Today report. Statistically speaking, the vast majority of those children end up exactly where they ought to be, when they are supposed to get there. But every now and then, things go awry.

Best practices for when kids travel solo

While living in fear is no way to live, the best course of action is to be over-prepared. TPG Family's Summer Hull, whose oldest daughter flew solo at age 6, offers a number of tips on minimizing the possibility of mishaps when sending kids solo:

• First and foremost, make sure your child is mentally and emotionally prepared to travel alone. Every child is different and matures at a different pace; one child may be ready to go solo at age 6, while another won't be ready even at age 16. Think through worst-case scenarios (but knock on wood): Will your child be excited, calm or traumatized under uncertain circumstances?
• Book nonstop flights for your unaccompanied minor whenever possible to keep his or her travel experience as simple as possible.
• Choose flights that depart earlier in the day to account for potential delays, diversions or rebooking that would be more likely to require an overnight stay if they happened later in the evening.
• Provide a cellphone for travel use for your child to reach you in case of an emergency. Or make sure they at least have an iPad or similar that can FaceTime while on Wi-Fi.
• Make sure your child has access to money for food and other incidental expenses that may arise.
• Include a printed list of emergency contacts for your child, and teach them to insist on having an airline employee reach out to you or other designated guardians.
• If your child is on any medications, make sure he or she knows how and when to take each dose.

Bottom line

If your child is flying as an unaccompanied minor, track the flight and contact the airline in the event of a delay or diversion if they don't reach out to you first. Call the airline, the airport, use social media and don't give up until you are given up-to-date information and assured that everything is fine.