The right — and wrong — age for kids to start skiing

Mar 11, 2020

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I’ve yet to meet — or raise — a child who was overwhelmingly excited to go to ski school for the first (or second) time. I’m sure those kids exist, but let’s just say that for a certain age bracket, tears at ski school are at least as common as runny noses.

With two daughters, we’ve had years of experience with various ski schools and private ski instructors in multiple countries, tried to teach them ourselves and have collectively spent more money in the process than I’d ever dare to total. Our goal wasn’t just to teach them how to ski, but to get them to love skiing.

I doubt anyone would argue against the reality that teaching kids to ski is indeed a process, especially if you don’t live near the mountains and are instead only on the snow a few times per year (or less) during family ski vacations. For us, getting young kids on skis has had mixed results that ranged from “Best ever, I love skiing!” to those aforementioned tears and even reports that included, “Um, your daughter ran away from ski school for a bit today.”

As was common with many things we tried with our firstborn, I think we went “too much, too soon” with some ski-related activities for her.

That said, every kid is different, so what was too much for her may be just right for another kid. With a decade of snowy highs and lows under our ski boots, here are my thoughts on the right age to start kids on skis.

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(Photo by Summer Hull/The Points Guy)
(Photo by Summer Hull/The Points Guy)

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Ski school starts as young as 2.5 years old

Many of the major mountains offer child care for kids as young as 8 weeks. The actual ski school programs, where you strap skis on and get on the snow, have historically started for children around age 3. But increasingly, children as young as 2.5 are included in some hybrid ski and play programs.

I’d argue that the best ski school programs for those in the 2- to 4-year-old range are usually those that include a combo of indoor and outdoor time. For example, Snowmass (in the Aspen area) has a program for 2.5 to 3-year-olds that gives them access to a private learning area right outside the indoor Treehouse play area. They spend one hour learning to ski each morning; otherwise, they are indoors having fun and some afternoon rest time.

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The treehouse play area at Aspen Snowmass. (Photo by Summer Hull/The Points Guy)

Breckenridge also has an optional “Little Rippers” $65 add-on to a day of child care that gets little ones ages 2 and up on skis with a private instructor for one hour of their day. At Deer Valley, 3-year-olds get a hybrid model that includes indoor playtime along with a one-hour session of ski time.

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(Photo by Summer Hull/The Points Guy)

Now, I’ve seen some very, very tiny kids who are probably no older than 2 years old whizzing down the mountain with their parents, but those kids have parents who ski far better than me — and they probably live near the mountain. In other words, if you are a once-a-season-ski-family, I would recommend 100% ignoring the possibility of your 2.5-year-old actually skiing on his or her own. Honestly, even most 3- or 4-year-olds that will only have one ski trip per year are probably not going to really be skiing, but that doesn’t mean you should avoid any sort of ski instruction.

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Avoid real ski school until your child is ready

In addition to the hybrid programs, many mountains offer child care (sometimes in cool settings like the Treehouse at Aspen Snowmass) for children until they are 5 or 6 years old, such as at the Playschool at Keystone, With these solid non-ski options available, I highly recommend not rushing into actual ski school if your child is hesitant. Your 3-year-old may be ready and excited for ski school, but if that’s not the case, don’t try it.

Getting the privilege of learning to ski should be exciting for your kid. If your preschool-aged kid isn’t enthusiastic, skip the drama and don’t risk tainting his or her view of skiing. Instead, opt for the mountain’s child care option until your children are a little older and ready to learn the joys of skiing or boarding. (They may hate child care, too, but at least it’s not skiing they are actively disliking.)

As eager-beaver parents, we pressed forward with ski school for our first daughter before we were sure was ready and she really showed us who was boss when she ran away from ski school that day. We then turned to a very expensive private lesson on our next ski trip to counteract that experience.

Cubs on Skis
Cubs on Skis program for 2.5 years and up at Snowmass. (Photo courtesy of Aspen Snowmass)

If you truly believe your 3- or 4-year-old is ready for real outdoor ski school, make sure he or she is potty trained and able to get through the day successfully without a nap. If that’s not the case, don’t stress, just go for the child care or hybrid option.

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The magic ski age is around 5

Some kids learn to legitimately ski outside of the ski school magic carpet corral earlier than 5 but, for the most part, those will be the local regular mountain visitors or the physically gifted kids. In general, the magic age for skiing is closer to 5. If given the chance, and at least three consecutive days of learning, a kid around 4.5 to 5 years old may be able to get the basics of listening, turning, stopping and managing the lifts enough to get out of the ski school corral and onto the wide-open green runs.

My 5-year-old skiing happily at Steamboat. (Photo by Summer Hull/The Points Guy)

For most vacation skier kids, any lessons before that age are truly just for fun and to give them something to do while the parents and older siblings hit the mountain. That said, with private lessons, both of my kids escaped the ski school corral at about 4.5 years old.

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If you can, private lessons are worth it

If you want to speed up the learning process once you think your kids are ready, you simply cannot beat private ski lessons. Fair warning: Private lessons are painfully expensive. However, they are less painful than that time I tore my knee trying to teach my first daughter to ski on my own.

Most mountains offer either 1:1 private lessons or family lessons that keep the family together. Last year, we did a private family lesson option at Breckenridge to keep the three youngest cousins (aged 3 to 6 years) together for a half day of learning. This allowed them to be less anxious about ski school since they were all together, and it ended at noon so they could then take an afternoon nap. They got many more practice runs in at ski school since the group was small.

That family private lesson was more expensive than ski school, but not by all that much when you factored in that three kids benefited.

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(Photo by Summer Hull/The Points Guy)

This year, we did a full-day family private lesson at Mammoth and had the instructor spend the first 2/3 of the day with just my 4.5-year-old (with me checking in from time to time). In that time, she went from only ever skiing the magic carpet at ski school to legitimately doing lifts and skiing the green runs. It was nothing short of a snowy miracle and absolutely worth the hefty price tag.

If a full-day private lesson is outside your budget (it can ring in around $800 to $1,000 at major mountains), don’t despair. A one-hour private lesson, such as at a smaller mountain we enjoyed in Maryland, can price under $100. Other mountains offer early morning or late-afternoon discounted two-hour lessons, which might be the right amount of time for a younger skier.

Alternatively, small group lessons with just three or four kids, such as the Quad Ski Lessons at Breckenridge, that combine the lower price of group ski school with more individualized attention and the same instructor each day, can be a good compromise. At Park City, 3- and 4-year-olds are put into small groups with no more children than their numeric age (Ultimate 3 for 3s and Ultimate 4 for 4s).

(Photo by Summer Hull/The Points Guy)
(Photo by Summer Hull/The Points Guy)

Bottom line

I know firsthand how challenging it is to really want your little one to learn to love skiing as soon as possible. But, the reality is that just because ski school is available to very young children, it doesn’t mean that all kids are all necessarily ready to start skiing without their parents at such a young age.

Many kids who just ski occasionally on vacation will be best served at those young ages of 2, 3 or potentially even 4, by on-mountain child care or in a combo program that combines both indoor play and some outdoor time on skis.

As kids cross the threshold to being at or close to kindergarten, the odds of success in ski school increase dramatically — even if they only go to the mountains once per year. Regardless of your choice, the most important elements at those young ages are that they have fun and stay safe.

Remember that kid of mine who ran away from ski school at 4 years old? She’s now 10, skis black runs and loves the sport even though she lives in snow-free Texas. The best age for skiing and ski school will vary from kid to kid, but if you are patient, you’ll get to the powdery promised land.

At 9, my oldest daughter now (thankfully) loves to ski.


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